When trust breaks down in a relationship, even basic things like showering can turn into
a big problem. In this story, our reader is dealing with her husband’s intense jealousy,
which turns something as simple as taking a shower into a fight. His baseless suspicions
lead to controlling behavior, and it even gets to the point where he invades her privacy in
a really shocking way. Our reader dropped us a message.My husband doesn’t let me
spend much time in the bathroom. He says “normal” people spend 10-15 minutes in there.
If I spend more time than that, he thinks I’m pretending to shower while texting or calling other men.